I was simultaneously very satisfied that I was able to leave her shaking with pleasure and also so horny that I was on the verge of having my own orgasm with my pants still on, even after zero physical stimulation. Still though, I managed to remain focused on her, and I hugged and kissed her lovingly and intimately, telling her how beautiful she is and how much I adore her.
She still finds it strange that such encounters end with no real denouement on my part though. She asked whether it was healthy for me to never climax. In reply I said that I had heard that there was a link between prostate health and regular ejaculation, but that if I ejaculated now I would probably instantly become lazy and inattentive. I pointed out how affectionate I was being and told her that I was keen to do some work around the house; I contrasted this with my probable post-orgasm behaviour - rolling over and going to sleep. I could see that this made sense to her, but it was also clear that she wasn't completely satisfied with this situation.
This is when I had a brainwave...
I said "Well, I have heard that it's possible to make a man ejaculate without him having a full orgasm, if you just stop everything just before he's about to come. Perhaps we could try that - then I'll stay healthy and also I won't get lazy! Everyone's happy!"
Well, she didn't need any encouragement, which surprised me as I thought she would find the concept really weird. I was so horny that it only took a couple of minutes. As soon as I was on the edge, I told her and she let go. Voila! The least satisfying ejaculation of my entire life. None of the pulsing, whole-body rush of sexual ecstasy, no real sense of release, just a very unspectacular and slightly embarrassing, well, dribble. She was very happy indeed with the result and I have made sure I have been co-operative, hard-working and attentive ever since. And still just as horny.
She has never heard the phrase "ruined orgasm" in her life, but she has just become quite the expert!
Merry Christmas x